First off, as said, have all the same batteries when connecting in parallel. Also, replace them all at the same time, otherwise an older one will ruin the newer.
Now, as far as how many, my first question is what are you intending to do to make use of these batteries? Typically, the only reason I see someone using more than 2 house batteries, on boats our size, is for stereos. Although those without generators that want to stay on the hook for more than a couple days at a time is a good reason too.

Connecting 3 batteries in parallel should not be a problem, just remember it will take 3 times as long to charge them back up. The reason is because the 3 batteries, when in parallel, will act as one large battery.
FWIW, I did a ton of research two years ago when I was replacing my house batteries. Really wanted to go with the best gel type, possibly optima, battery. After lots of thinking, I decided that really the amp-hours is what I was concerned about. Went with 2 new batteries from Wal-Mart at $60 each. I have been extremely happy with the performance, easily being able to go more than 24 hours without even thinking about running the genny. (means a lot coming from someone who always thought I should have the best battery in everything). Now, with that being said, your number one culprit of draining your battery is your fridge. I have found out I don't need it turned more than half way up without it still keeping things cool.
Either way you go, make sure to keep the batteries above ~11.8V. Here is a decent source to help you figure out what you need
http://www.windsun.com/Batteries/Battery_FAQ.htm . Good luck.